I've noticed quite a few profiles saying if someone wishes to connect with them they better work really hard at Impressing them. I understand that each person is here to enjoy their own unique experiences their own way and for their own reasons. To each their own and I don't judge but let's not kid ourselves. This is a social networking site, not a full blown dating site. I'm not going to show up at your door and take you on dates. We are all here for one fundamental reason.  There's a thrilling component about strangers controlling a device, there's the unknown elements which enhances the experience for... me at least.  So, if I'm controlling your device, does it really matter if I'm 25 or 80? I'm just a bunch of buzzing, close your eyes and I'll be who you want me to be, and that's just fine. I'm here to help you relief some stress, fulfill some desires and then go on with our lives.  Now I understand that some people play at different levels, and some may want to video chat and connect with just a couple of people to make it fun and routine but to the person demanding that we write you an essay explaining why we think we are compatible because you are highly picky.... You're on the wrong site.  Don't get me wrong, you have the right to be picky but the chances of anyone finding true love and marrying each other here are pretty slim.... Let's just keep perspective here, otherwise this just becomes another 'could have been great' site