If you play on the game Second Life, there are now products you can buy in the game to have objects or other players control your Lovense toys.
I developed one such product, called LoveBridge. You can find it on the Second Life marketplace here: https://marketplace.secondlife.com/stores/220741
I'm constantly working to make it the best virtual experience with Lovense toys, with over 100 users in Second Life so far. Feel free to connect with me in game (Kerra Rhiadra).