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Long distance bondage - couples

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  • Jul 11, 2020 05:39:11 PM

Have a kinky side and wish to indulge in some long distance control with your partner whilst they are left helpless in bondage then you are probably looking for an option to have your controller release you from a distance.


For the below release method to work you will need at least 1 toy and a controlling device. If you wish to play with your partner you will need a second toy and controlling device.


Quick note: please practice safe bondage. Do not rely on this method of release as your only means of escape. You should always have a second means of escape such as discovery by a flatmate, second key in a more difficult or distant location to access or scissors or cutters which can get through your means of bondage. If your APP often crashes make sure that you have a means of resetting it to keep the fun going. Practice your situation always with a trusted controller.


Setting up the release method - this is very dependant on what space you have to work with as this is basically a game of hide and seek or Marco polo. The bigger the area and more rooms the longer the game will be.


The keys you use for the bondage or scissors if you use tape or rope are hidden somewhere in the house out of sight but within reach of your partner whilst in bondage. Put the toy and controller in with the keys /scissors, connecting the toy to the controller via the app. 

Now you have a couple of options here to choose from. Timer, pattern, combination of both or remote app control but the basic premise is the same.

When the toy starts it will become audible to your partner, the faster it goes the louder it will be. If your using a timer it will be predetermined when your partner will be released. If you use a pattern  you can plan in a tease of low vibe sections and short peaks to make it kind of random when your partner might find it. With remote control you determine when they are released, if you have his it very well. However if you wish to use remote control and control toys about your partner then you will a couple of controlling device and a couple of receiving controllers as well as 4 accounts to provide independent control of the release device.

If this is the case then Insert / attach the toy you are looking to play with and make sure the toys are connected to the APP and the phone controller securely attached to your partner


For the bondage - This is really down to personnel preference of the Dom and Sub, but for this scenario your partner needs to remain fairly mobile in order to search for the keys. 

As a point on safety if you intend your partner to traverse steps then I would suggest no heels and if there is a likely issue with breathing then hoods and solid gags should not be used in combination

Possible scenario - 

Set up a lush hidden in another room of the house connected to a spare smart phone and set to go off on timer when I get to work with a repeating 10minute pattern of a low vibe bump at 5 minutes and a high vibe at 10minutes 

Get partner ready by waking them up and in the mood before inserting a hush and strapping a domi to their thigh. Then help them into a hobble skirt to keep every thing in place and restrict their movement at the knees. With a set of leather padlock cuffs and short chain, secure there ankles and restrict their leg movement further.

For the top a latex open cup vest to allow me to secure the phone controller behind her back between the overlap of the skirt and top. 

To secure her hands another set of leather padlock able cuffs, a 2ft spreader bar and a posture collar. With the middle of the bar connect to a  ring on the posture collar and the wrist cuffs attached at either end with a short 2" chain. The chain is important so that your partner can reach the cuff lock on the bar without having to be double jointed. The posture collar will also make it hard for them to see where their hands are, leaving a lot of the searching to feel.

Final flourishes of a bright red silicone ball gag so they don't disturb the neighbours and a set of bell nipple clamps so they jingle as they hobble about.

Then leave them on a low hum from the toys as you make your way to work. They have the option to go looking but with no clues as to the toys location. Once in work you can play with them to your heart's content even delaying them finding their release by putting their toys on full speed when you know the release toy is vibrating to mask it's sound. 

Even better if you have internal security camera at home which you can remotely view can be used to check on their progress and if they are getting close to the keys, distract them with some active control.


When you are done playing they can make it to the key and effect self release from their bondage. Ask them to follow up with a call when they are free to check they are alright.


Feel free to add additional items and toys to feed your kink.


Hope this helps all you kinky people out there with ideas and let me know if this method works out for you.

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SpoiledHarleyGirl

Hmmm interesting 

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