ORGASM CONTROL & EDGING

After seven long days of edging and being denied an orgasm, you’re desperate for more, aren’t you? You don’t get to cum unless you have my permission. And you’re going to have to earn my permission, darling. 

You’re not allowed to cum this week, but I want to see how many times you can edge for me. Go ahead. Do you want to cum or do you want to be good for Mistress? You decide.

That’s what I thought.

Maybe next month.

This is how I train my submissives. This is how I’ll train you… edging and orgasm control to keep you obedient. Just the way I like you.

What is orgasm control?

Orgasm control is an umbrella term that includes several activities, including: edging, orgasm denial, ruined orgasm, forced orgasm, etc. It’s the practice of delaying, denying, ruining or forcing your orgasm, either for your pleasure or your Mistress’ pleasure.

What is edging?

Edging, a key component of orgasm control, is the act of bringing someone (or yourself) to the edge of orgasm and then suddenly stopping them from reaching it. Often, this process of reaching the metaphorical “edge” is repeated several times before eventual climax and release.

What is orgasm denial?

Orgasm denial is bringing someone (or yourself) to the edge of orgasm and then denying release. Orgasm denial can include bondage and chastity devices, and it can be short-term (“not right now”) or long-term (“not for 30 days”).

What is a ruined orgasm?

A ruined orgasm minimizes, or completely eliminates, the pleasure you normally feel from reaching climax. This is achieved by abruptly stopping all stimulation just as climax is reached.

The strength of the orgasm does not match the build up from all of the teasing and edging. Often, there is an ejaculatory response without the other pleasurable feelings associated with an orgasm.

An orgasm is a powerful thing. Learning to control your orgasm and offer it to your Mistress—to her pleasure—is life-changing. Only allowing someone to release when it serves a dominant woman’s pleasure is the very essence of femdom. I relish in training you to control your orgasm through tease and denial. And merciless edging instructions, of course. 

I’ll incorporate elements of tantra to tease you to your wits’ end. To tease you and deny you until you’re begging me for release. You’re so pliable when you’re desperate, darling.

You’ve wanted to give up this control for a long time, haven’t you? Lucky you.

But remember: it’s not about you or your pleasure. It’s all about me. It’s about my pleasure, my entertainment… your torment.

If you want release today, this week, this month, this year… you’ll have to beg and pray I am feeling merciful.

Will I let you cum? Will I make you wait? Only one way to find out, right?