I don't have many women around that I know to control me. the Dom Sub relationship is built on trust, and I haven't trusted anyone I know close by with myself. I haven't experimented with being dommed yet so it would be an interesting experience to say the least. I'm not sure that I am a masochist and thus also not sure about marks. but I am willing to try it at least once.

For myself, it has been difficult to connect with a local Mistress. Many have been flakey when meeting RT. I have not had experience with on line, but being controlled remotely has me wanting to find out. Like the person above, trust is a must, and seems easier to open up online. Less worries of something going bad and having been confronted in a vanilla public setting.