Did you DM an unsolicited dick pic or link? Or slide on in there to request control or peddle your patterns? Well, today is your lucky day! You've been referred to Brit's Virtual Sexual Harassment Training! Welcome! 

Most people (especially the women) are not interested in DMing with a person until they have gotten to know them a little in the chat rooms. 

So, cool your jets. Take a cold shower. Beat your own meat. Do whatever you need to start thinking with your 👆head, not your 👇 head. 

Once you have gotten to know someone in chat and feel a MUTUAL connection, then go ahead and ask in the chatroom if you may DM the person. It shows respect and here respect will get you far.

It is never appropriate to send an unsolicited dick pic. Or ass pic... If we want to see your edge in your ass we will ask. 

*This message is DrJ approved*

There is an entire room dedicated to dropping links for control. I understand that it can be hard to get links picked up at times but DMing a link to someone will only piss them off and ensure that they will never click your link in Toy Control so you really lose out and further reduce your chances of getting a controller.

This is a fun community and it can be easy to get carried away with "excitement." The rules of engagement aren't always clear. But if in doubt, ask. No one will get mad if you ask genuine and sincere questions.

Slow down and everything you are chasing will come around and catch you.  John De Paola