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Can A Feminist Be A Slut And Whore?

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  • Dec 15, 2022 10:17:13 AM

Recently I reluctantly started BEST Slut Training with a self-proclaimed feminist.
Why, as a self-respecting feminist, can she get so turned on by being a dirty little slut, or whore?
Like any good, thoughtful feminist, they worry and attempt to internalize what "society" has long told them about men and women; They are concerned that even in fantasy, wanting to serve as nothing more than a vessel for male pleasure is an indication that they become a self-loathing woman, mired in a fetish worthy of Freudian pursuits.
In vanilla life —the one that exists when they are outside the BDSM realm and not a dungeon-bound slut—It's ok to loathe the words "slut and whore." Of course. It's objectifying, reductive, and crude.
So why, behind closed doors, deep in a submissive state, with a trusted Dominate or Master, Male or Female, does this get women so hot and wet?
Because being called a "slut and whore" makes the relationship with their Dominate —who they must trust—all the more intimate through the power exchange; "I'm a good girl for everyone else, but I'm a bad girl for you." It's their little secret, and there's something dare-I-say romantic and naughty about the entire exchange.


Two partners in an equal relationship of position and power are good at settling differences and making love. But sometimes fucking requires a bit of a power imbalance—and sometimes women want to be used and fucked.
Remember, the words slut and whore are terms of endearment in the BDSM space. Unlike, they are used in the vanilla world. I'd also like to think how strangely feminist it is in the end. Because I believe that, ultimately, being a "slut and whore" doesn't make a woman anything more or less than a woman who enjoys sex and can serve herself in serving her Dominate partner. There's a subversion to it that so many women find freeing, coursing through their bodies until they are weak and strong.


I believe in the slut and whore dynamic; you can be both!


Master J

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