So at the beginning of August 2022, I joined lovenselife. I never controlled a toy before and it showed since i was called a casino dealer and told not to pick up her links again. As time went by i made friends and started talking to more people getting comfortable here, i also got better at controlling toys (we dont control people). I got a sub for the first time ever and it was great till she dissappeared after about 2 months. I hit a rough patch and was worried that i messed up and i didnt know what to do. Then she randomly messaged me and cleared my thoughts of that. So i was able to go back to enjoying it here and having fun pleasing people and making friends. My time on lovense has been unique id say. Im not like most guys on here and sure i get it everyone says that but honestly most time the guys on here just make sexaul jokes at everything and anything a woman says if it can be sexual, butt into other peoples convos to try to get their attention. I get it its a site to control toys and meet people ect but not everything has to be sexual. My year here has been good but the guys certainly do like to ruin anything the site has going for it. (Yes im a guy so i probably do in some fashion). If it wasnt for some people i wouldnt have been here today, but i dont know how long ill be sticking around. We shall see 🤷