I read stories written by Women in this site and others about the pleasure they have from dynamics they share with various partners in lovense remote control sessions! Including the Control group chat with those random links and random people controlling toys! All nice and fun! 

However, these kind of dynamics stimulate the Dopamine receptors in our minds, which is the hormones response for excitement, orgasms and short term happiness! It is a short term and doesn't last long! 

Our bodies and minds with repeatedly stimulating the Dopamine and increasing the levels, get addicted to that short happiness! Which could lead to stronger aftershocks and depression that occurs after the end of the stimulation, when the Dopamine levels got dropped and no aftercare or rewards were provided or given! 

Why rewards or aftercare?! Because that satisfaction someone have after being rewarded is increasing the other happiness hormones receptors levels Serotonin! Which is the main responsible for the long term happiness that lasts long and keep the balance from being addicted to only short term Dopamine! 

Keep your wellbeing as priority and read about depression caused by Dopamine addiction! 

Controllers! Controllers! Controllers! Don't just educate yourself about how to create the perfect patterns or how to grab a link in milliseconds! Control comes with responsibilities, and Knowledge is a power here! Use it! Educate yourself to provide aftercare and some nice words as rewards, maybe more! But don't miss use your partner and leave them suffer from such depression they might face, when the green dots turns to red, or the link is not active anymore! 

P.s : Serotonin is an inhibitory neurotransmitter. This means it works by telling the body, “This feels good, I've had enough.” Dopamine is an excitatory neurotransmitter and works by telling the body, “This feels good, I want more.” You can think of serotonin as the happy chemical and dopamine as the pleasure chemical